To Our Family and Friends

Thank you.

Thank you so much for your love, kindness, support, encouragement, and prayers.

You didn't ask for this journey. We knew what we were in for, but did you? You didn't ask to have grandchildren, great-grandchildren, nieces, nephews, babysitting charges, young friends, come and go out of your lives.

You weren't asked by us if you were up to the task of really loving someone who may or may not be in your life forever. Our kids need love - unconditional love - and attention, and healing, and to belong. They need family. They need friends. We and they are asking you to give, give, give, not knowing if they will be "ours" or "yours" for the long run.

You weren't asked to deal with the stress felt by my husband and I as we madly adjust to new additions, with not nine months to prepare, but maybe only nine days. Or nine hours. Or ninety minutes. You weren't asked to put up with a Mama who forgot to send to school a snack, or extra clothes, or whatever else I've already forgotten that I've forgotten.

You didn't ask to sit near a family with four kids who may need multiple bathroom breaks or diaper changes during church.

We chose this life because we have been called to it. 

You weren't asked if it was all okay with you.

And yet, you all have done it.

You all have put up with everything that is the nature of our lives, and have risen mightily to the occasion and to our aid.

We can't thank our families enough for loving our kids. They truly have family now. That right there is enough to both warm my heart and break my heart with emotion. Whether the newest additions stay forever or not, that is something that can't be replaced. You never regret the love you share.

We can't thank our friends enough for the scaffolding you've helped provide in these times of transition for us to help hold us all together. From meals to diapers, you've delivered! From helping to walk our troop to the car to give an extra hand, to lending a listening ear, you've been there.

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. To each and every one of you who has been, is, and will be touching our lives in any way, thank you. You all are so important and valued to us.

I sincerely hope that you understand our gratitude. However poorly we express or show it, please know that it is felt.

You are treasured by us. God bless you always.